Looking for something a little less DIY, where you don’t have to try and gauge the situation? Unfortunately, some of those tips do require a bit of advanced set up and rely on you or your partner(s) to take the lead. To read more about some other tips and tricks, check out some more ideas in our blog post here.
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Have your most recent STI testing results on hand, and come up with some conversation starters that work for you and your partner(s).Do your research to inform yourself and prepare yourself to tackle anything that might be a tough or touchy subject.Create a safe space for you and your partner(s), taking into account the setting, the time and the approach, to make sure everyone feels comfortable, accepted and supported.
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We’ve put some tips together for how best to check both the pleasure and practical boxes when you’re talking to your partner(s) about your sex life, and here are some of the highlights: It can feel a bit like walking on eggshells, hoping not to offend, but also not to close yourself off to new sexual experiences with your partner(s).Īnd what about all the important sexual health conversations around condoms, testing history, birth control preferences and more? Those are just as important to discuss with a partner ahead of embarking on a sexual adventure, but can also be awkward, uncomfortable and nerve-wracking to successfully have. It can be very tricky to start the conversation, and even trickier to make sure it goes smoothly.
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Have you ever been stumped about how to start a conversation about sex with your partner(s)? Tired of the age-old, but very vague, question: “Are you ready to take this to the next level?” Curious if you’re fulfilling all your partner’s desires and if they might be holding back?